I can’t imagine my husband sharing his body, his most intimate thoughts, and his time with another woman, regardless of the medium. Certainly sexting has become an issue among some Irish couples.

"For someone with a history of sexting though, it's quite easy to fall back into that habit because of the access we have to smartphones.

"If so, have you discussed your boundaries with sexting, talking to others, feelings related to intimate conversations with others? When she swore there wasn't, I produced the emails I had printed out.

Recently, news broke that Huma Abedin, a longtime aide for Hillary Clinton, finally decided to separate from her husband, former Congressman Anthony Weiner, after he was caught inappropriately messaging a woman online. Ashley Cole, Tea Loni and Tiger Woods are just some of the celebrities who could offer Vernon some words of wisdom this week, after previously being caught texting people they really shouldn't have. When someone close to you acts in a such a way that would warrant dismissing you from his or her life, take the time to allow yourself to heal and determine what would be best for you … The minute the 'sexter' gets found out for sexting, however, the matter is out in the open and it switches from being a fantasy-led to a real-life scenario - one that has the power to humiliate and cause feelings of betrayal in their partner. Technology may be making it easier than ever to cheat on your spouse, but as Ronan Keating - whose affair with dancer Francine Cornell was reportedly rumbled after his ex-wife Yvonne Connolly discovered a secret mobile phone at home in 2010 - can attest, it's making it easier to get caught too. It depends, according to David Kavanagh of Avalon Relationship Consultants. Have you discovered that your partner is sexting with another person? You crave who they have become in your life and what they fulfill. and 'How would you like if it was done to you? Because once you learn how to forgive a cheater, your relationship can, in fact, go back to normal. I’m sure most women have asked, “Why didn’t she leave the first time?” or “What made her stay after it happened again?” Quite sure that they would have left. “In real life you know you are betraying your vows of commitment and monogamy. I now ask myself, do I really know him. Some people don't understand how important their partner is until they risk losing them, which could be the case here. The Love Rewired author added: "In the last 10 years, the boundaries of what's allowed and what's not allowed in a relationship have stretched hugely. Then there was emotional cheating. But on Wednesday night, the 29-year-old at the heart of the headlines appeared to refute these claims, tweeting a picture of Disney character Pinocchio with the message: "A liar should have a good memory. "Obviously it's not ideal for someone to start texting someone they've been caught sexting [in the past]," he said. Some people can forgive and forget. Pre-marriage counsellor David Kavanagh warned: "I read a quote by Vernon Kay [given to Woman magazine] this week where he said he likes to "keep up with the 20 year-olds". They may still love and fancy you, but 'sext' someone else purely as a means of escapist fantasy.

The average Irish person already checks their phone 40 times a day, according to research. If they are truly sorry and have a reason behind for the sexting that you understand and feel you can work on, then it may be worth forgiving them. Think about it: would you? I might have been able to try & forgive if she showed any true regret & made any attempt to change her behavior & fix our marriage. And, for his part, does he make a concerted effort to change? Sarah Watson, licensed counselor and sex therapist, tells Elite Daily. After all, sexting is quite different to conventional affairs. Only you know what is best for you, and if you think you can forgive them and stay together, more power to you. "Warning signs of somebody sexting would be things like not letting their phone out of their sight, constantly messaging even while you're watching a movie together or laughing or smiling at a message, then saying 'It's nothing'. Video about can you forgive someone for sexting: You had always stated the importance of being honest with one another and speak the truth, so how could this happen? Let's think about this. It helps you let go of what might be holding you back. A Nigerian newspaper and Online version of the Vanguard, a daily publication in Nigeria covering Nigeria news, Niger delta, general national news, politics, business, energy, sports, entertainment, fashion,lifestyle human interest stories, etc. Likely to be on 'Team Tess', meanwhile, are Reese Witherspoon and Eva Longoria, both of whom bounced back from being virtually cheated on in the past.

If he had been going out with her, that would have made more sense. And if you forgive, should you stay in the relationship?

The latter is disrespectful in itself. These are questions you can answer through time, observation and in therapy. How can I trust him again. As online, social media and smartphone communication blurs the boundaries about what a romantic relationship is, it's not obvious where 'sexting' fits in the modern age. If the actions mentioned above are not considered cheating, then should the inappropriate behavior be forgiven? I just don’t think I could handle that. Is he making strides to really and truly become a more evolved person in your marriage? Ask them why they’re doing it and how long it’s been going on. But again, it depends on what you and your partner have discussed is and isn't OK in your relationship. By all accounts, you define his sexting as cheating on you (which I think is completely accurate, personally). It's hard to know where to draw the line. That's what Tess Daly is sure to be wondering this week after husband Vernon Kay was once more busted having 'textual relations' with glamour model Rhian Sugden. After being outed by The Sun on Tuesday, the dad of two, who's been married to Strictly Come Dancing host Tess since 2003, claimed: "I was contacted by Rhian out of the blue back in December regarding the story in 2010 claiming she had information she wanted to pass on. It's easy to assume something without any evidence, and even then, some evidence may appear worse off than it actually is. You’ve asked a lot of pointed questions — “How could he keep doing that knowing how it affected every part of our life and was getting in the way of our supposed happy family?

Can you not snoop through his phone? Can sexting someone else while you're in a relationship be considered a form of cheating? "Talk to your partner about what he wanted to get from the sext exchange," sex therapist Stefani Threadgill tells Elite Daily. Sexting has become incredibly common.

A friend of mine once found out her husband was cheating on her with another woman: when he said he "loved" the other woman, that was more hurtful to her than the thought of them having sex together. Dr Teri Apter, a psychologist, writer and senior tutor at the University of Cambridge, says the emotional reasons for sexting are not necessarily the same for carrying out a physical affair.

So what’s the win-win position? It helps you move forward when you find yourself stuck holding onto a years-long grudge. Are you a monogamous, committed couple?" According to sex therapist Marlene Wasserman, a cyber affair is no different from real-life infidelity. Wow. It can become intolerable because of the 'shaming' aspect: you've made a statement publicly that you're together, whether married or in a relationship, and yet his crude sexting has affected that.". If you haven't already seen this video (above), watch it. Can You Forgive Someone for Sexting? "There are always two people in a relationship and if it's not working there's more than one good reason.". Your self-confidence may also take a hit, which is why you really may want to consider moving on.